looks

Telling someone that they look tired isn't very nice. What's the point of even telling someone they look tired in the first place? The only situation in which I can see it being purposeful is if you think they should go to sleep. If it's the first thing in the morning & I get to work why would you tell me I look like I'm tired? It's not like I can go back home & go to sleep. I understand that it's just small talk but small talk seems so very stupid to me sometimes.
Sometimes I think I might be a little messy looking in general because I don't wear make up & I don't spend a large amount of time doing my hair & I wear clothes for comfort but I'm beyond the point of caring how people think I look. I'm me, this is what I look like & this is how I am & that's it. I'm not going to change these things about myself for anyone & I don't think they are that important.