say sorry

Do you ever find yourself holding little grudges & waiting for apologies from people that have done either major or little things to you that were wrong? Everyone always says its bad to hold grudges & maybe it is, but if you look at it from a different angle you're really waiting for someone to show you that they're not going to disappoint you so maybe holding certain grudges in certain situations can make you somewhat of an optimist. Saying sorry or getting someone to say sorry can be almost as hard (if not more) as saying I love you but it's just as important. So hey, don't kill someone's positive view of you & say you're sorry already. You'd only be preserving yourself. Thank you.