Comforts of home

Whenever I go home I get the sense that I'll be relaxed and can chill out watch my shows on io and have a wonderful fridge to myself. Well, instead my mother stresses me out over GREs, grad school, money, all of which I know are important but I really need time to chill out and not have to worry about things. I don't go home every weekend to be harassed, I go home to work, see a few friends, watch every episode of glee over and over, do some homework and leave. Sometime I think even my dorm room can feel like a safe haven. It's more quiet and my roommate isn't going to badger me about doing things for the future...it's nice, so where are the comforts of home?