Wednesday, September 30, 2009

manners

Why do boys have no manners ... chivalry is dead and its the saddest thing I've ever seen!
- What happened to the days of knights and chivalry and courting girls and asking her father for permission to even talk to her ... we say that the dating scene has changed that today is more of a internet connected world with online dating and hooking up but i think its sad. There is no face to face interaction and any face to face interaction is one of two polar extremes .. either the guy is socially inept and cant hold a conversation without looking at the floor or he is cocky because he is one of the few guys that can hold a conversation.. which leads him to be an asshole.. cocky and full of himself where he shouldn't be.
- It's sad how guys don't understand where the line is drawn between a guy and a girl .. guys associate girls as their friends and its ridiculous i am all for being one of the guys i love to hang out with them and personally i have way more guy friends than girfriends jst because they are less drama and more funn. But the line is drawn at some extent.. chivalry should be shown.. manners ... common decency .. there is a way to treat a lady and ever girl should stand u p for herself and demand to be treated this way.. blame it on society or blame it one us .. whether the girls for letting it happen or the guys for doing it .. but something needs to change. Girls should be treated as so.. like ladies .. they are something to be cherished and loved and swooned over .. something to chase and aspire to have .. somehing you strive for .. but most of all something you respect.. respect is key .. so for any guys who were wondering girls like to be treated like ladies like they are special .. we know there are a million other girls who want you (its college) we are aware of all the girls that just want to hook up and we know that its easier to go for them .. but sometimes its just nice to feel loved ... like you amount to something because thats what it is to a girl when you court her .. when you fight for her and her attention.. you're showing her through your actions that you care.. that shes worth something to you .. that shes special <3 and in the end everyone just wants to be loved..

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